This is how I went from Total Slob to Clutter-Free Queen

If you were to ask my mom what my room was like when I was younger, she would laugh and describe a pathless floor covered in clothes and crafty things abound.

I can’t tell you how many times I was threatened with a garbage bag: “Faith Holly (note the middle name usage), if you don’t clean your room right now, I’m going in there with a garbage bag and you’ll never see that stuff again.”

Now, you would think that would be an effective threat to a kid with a love for the mounds of stuff that I constantly drowned myself in, but here I sit knowing that I never took it to heart. Continue reading

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These are all of the Epic Books I am Reading Right Now…ish

Episode 1: You Can Have it All

For most of my life, I was under the impression that I could only read one book at a time.

It was a constant internal battle of commitment. I love books so much!

Every time I found a new book that tickled my fancy, I just had to read it. So, in this dire situation, I had no idea how to control my textual addiction…I also had no idea that my commitment to commitment was actually resulting in complete and utter non-commitment. I’m pretty sure I went through a five-year streak where I averaged one book a year (and one of those years included a three-part trilogy…)

After years of struggling with one book to the next, this huge book nerd is here to tell you one of the most important things that I have learned along my paged journey: Continue reading

The Truth About What Happens When You Become a Minimalist

It’s funny to me how this happened. I remember hanging out at a bar, talking to my new friend Phil and learning about minimalism for the very first time. He talked about how much it changed his life, how little he owned now, and this new-found freedom he felt.

Well, here I am about six months later… I caught the bug.

Diagnosis: Minimalist in Training

I have significantly decreased my belongings to about 25% of what I used to own (yes, literally). And. you know what? I have to say, minimalism has made my life a lot less enjoyable in a lot of ways.

It was a few weeks ago that I stumbled on Erin’s post on A Welder’s Wife that talked about some of the same feelings that I have had and am currently processing: 10 Ways Minimalism Ruined My Life Forever. Here are some of my own takeaways… Continue reading

How Minimalism has made Me More Grateful

As you know, for the past few months I have been going H.A.M. simplifying my life. From downsizing my closet, to stripping down my kitchen, to limiting myself to one everyday purse (yes, that’s a thing) — I have been embodying the minimalist movement in my life.

I had no idea the impact that this journey would have on my psyche and how I interpret the world.

How minimalism has affected my attitude towards my home

Since I have significantly decreased my possessions, I have a new-found appreciation for the environment I have cultivated for myself. As I look around my apartment, I see the things that I have kept for myself that fit my cozy minimalist criteria: Continue reading

Life Update: Why Less Really is More

This post is a bit different than my others and is going to set the stage for my posts moving forward. No more gimmicky stuff. I really just want to share with you what’s going on in my life, what’s working for me, what’s not working for me, and everything that I am using to fuel the positive changes in my world.

You may or may not have noticed that I’ve been on a bit of a writing hiatus throughout the month of February and I want to give you some background into what I’ve been doing and how I found myself there.whylessreallyismore

As you know, my word for 2018 is FOCUS.

So, in true New Year’s resolutioner fashion, I began to drastically change my life — I made the decision to focus my life and I was going to do it. I made the decision to focus the things that I surround myself with and made the decision to choose what I wanted to focus my time on. So, I began to minimize.

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Your “It will get better.” Mentality: It’s not Working

I think we’ve all been there one way or another. We find ourselves in a situation that’s stuck. But, despite spending each day in a loop of stagnation and realizing that it is just that, we think “it will get better“.

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I used to be one of those people. I used to be the person that, even though all signs pointed to not going anywhere, still believed that there was something bright and shiny on the other side. No matter how hurt or torn down or trapped by the situation I was, I always found myself looking at the (usually pretty short) list of pro’s versus the (usually very long) list of con’s. A “glass a quarter full” kind of girl.

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Five Ways I am Focusing 2018

As I approach the new year, I am doing something different.  I am using 2018 to hone in on what I want out of life, what I want to see from myself, my surroundings, and my relationships. With all the reading I have been doing, all the content about mantras and mindfulness, I have made the decision to identify my word for 2018:

FOCUS

For those of you who know me, you may be laughing right now. As someone who has been diagnosed with ADHD, my life’s word may just need to be focus…hah! But, all joking aside, this word and what it represents for me is so much more than just making sure I am paying attention when someone is talking to me (yes, active listening…)

Here are the Five Ways I am Focusing 2018:

1. I am taking control of my addiction to stuff. 

This year, I want to focus on what I like and don’t like and what I am keeping around just because “I have to”. Today, for example, I went through my earring box (DIY Hack: it’s a tackle box organizer) and effectively went from 50 sets of earrings (real life) down to 20 sets of earrings (still don’t know how I can wear that many, but it’s a start). How someone could ever need 10 different size/shapes of plain round metal studs is beyond me. I’m now down to TWO sets of plain round metal studs. The number of Goodwill trips that I have made within the past month (see Getting the Jump on 2018 for why I started early) is exorbitant and as I pair down my life I am grateful to contribute to their mission. Let’s ditch some stuff. 

2. I am shaping my world to reflect what I seek to manifest within. 

When I moved into my apartment last summer, my main goal was homey AF. My house growing up was always full of knick-knacks, furniture to fill all the spaces, and  totally covered walls. Thus, I have a seemingly innate need to fill every nook and cranny. It’s time for a change. It’s time for me to bring order to my world, to use my environment as a vessel of accomplishment and not that of overwhelming demise. My apartment felt heavy – time to lighten up. Over the past month, I have gotten rid of: two tall bookcases, a couch (I still have another), an over-sized coffee table, a dresser (I still have, you guessed it, another), and numerous pieces of art and mirrors I have since out grown. I now have a smaller coffee table in my living room and a smaller chair next to my couch. Oh, the room for activities! To increase the use of my farm desk (and by that I mean: to actually use my farm desk), I moved it out of my bedroom and into my living room next to my sliding glass door. My bedroom now serves as my sanctuary of sleepy time and my desk is now flooded with daylight for maximum productivity. Let’s get sh*t done.

3. I am going to have fun being active!

Something that I struggled with this past year was finding a workout regimen and sticking to it. I. Just. Can’t. So, instead of creating imaginary goals for myself that revolve around what the cool kids are doing on Instagram (crossfit, powerlifting…), I am going to create and follow workouts that actually align with my fitness goals (and are possible in the gym I workout at!) What are they? Look and feel fabulous while having fun doing it! There aren’t any competitions with anyone but myself and I am all about mirror motivation. So, here’s to dropping my weight a bit and upping my reps, because I want a bodybuilder bod. And, working in more super sets because I love getting sweaty and pushing myself every time I step in the gym. Let’s get ripped!

4. I am investing in healthy relationships

For some time, I have had some walls. This year, the healthier, shinier version of myself will invest in healthy relationships. I am going to dedicate myself to developing rewarding and long-lasting connections. The kind of relationships that don’t go up in a firey blaze and go out in the blink of an eye. I’m looking for those good simmer on the stove relationships that just get better with time. In 2017, I have made decisions for myself based on what I want from my relationships and have made some not so easy choices, but I know moving forward that I will thank myself for taking the hard road. Because, I’m worth the time and effort. Let’s love our self and others!

5. I am giving RLI the ultimate makeover.

This year I am going to take RLI to the next level. I am honing the focus of my content and making my site reader and, ultimately, SEO friendly. I am committed to consistently publishing content and getting my email list up and running. By the end of this year, I will have finished my first eBook and made it available to my following. If you’re reading this, you can expect big things from me and I want to take you with me. 🙂 Let’s crush 2018!!!!

Do you have a word for 2018? How are you going to focus your new year? Leave me a comment! I love to talk goals and how we can reach them together. 🙂

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Life’s Little Breaks: Getting Back on Track

The Holidays. Oh-so-loved by all for the rib stickin’ good food, hilarious times, and much-needed vacation that comes with them. There is really nothing like getting to spend quality time with fresh-baked pie, your loved ones, and (hopefully) yourself as you take in not having to go back to work until the New Year. But, now it’s over. Continue reading

30 Day Challenge: 30 Days of No Makeup

This has been life changing. I had no idea how 30 days would change my perception of myself and who I am. (Never knew makeup could be so powerful, huh?) I sit here writing as a changed woman.

When I first started this 30-day challenge I was skeptical. I thought that I would still want to go back to my makeup. I would feel insecure about myself and the moment Day 30 hit, I would go running back to all my tinted lotions and eye-opening potions. I thought that I wouldn’t be able to get over the “incompleteness” that I felt when I looked in the mirror with nothing but my skin. (And mascara, but the reason why I didn’t give that up is in my other post…Continue reading

30 Day Challenge: Day 20 No Makeup

At this point in my journey, I feel like I’ve positioned myself between a rock and a hard place. I’m 20 days in and once I hit day 30, I’m not sure where I’m going to go from here. This whole entire experience has not been at all been what I expected and here’s why…

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